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WELCOME TO

couples development
FOSTERING LOVE. CELEBRATING UNITY.
RELATIONSHIP COACHING THAT EMPOWERS
COUPLES TO FLOURISH AFTER
THE HONEYMOON STAGE.
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YOUR LOVE STORY ELEVATED TO NEW HEIGHTS...

If we expect our relationships to last five or more years, we all have two options. Grow apart or grow together. When we ask for forever, what comes along with that is, well, forever. When we say "I do," whether or not that "I do" includes a wedding ring, we are telling our partners that we will love each other through our 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, and beyond. But what happens when you and your partner begin to grow in opposite directions? What happens when you and/or your partner feel stuck and like your needs aren't being met? What happens when you and/or your partner begin to feel unfulfilled and like you aren't living up to your full potential?

Forever requires  making the shift from personal development to couples development. Couples development includes supporting each other through reaching your personal goals while working together to attain your mutual relationship goals. When couples enter a phase in their relationship where it seems like they do more fighting than embracing, they often attempt one of two solutions. They either try to change their partner, or they change to a new partner altogether.

Relationships progress through five distinct stages: The Honeymoon Phase, the Reality Phase, the Power Struggle Phase, the Grow or Destruct Phase, and the Happily Ever After Phase. Contrary to popular belief, the Happily Ever After Phase does not begin during the wedding or at the beginning of the relationship. The Honeymoon Phase is the first stage of a relationship. This phase is marked by idealization, where you and your partner view each other as perfect. Relationship researchers have found that the Honeymoon phase in a relationship typically lasts up to two years. But if we expect that our relationship lasts until forever, what do we do after our relationship has surpassed that two year mark and we are no longer in the Honeymoon Phase? 

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EVERLASTING LOVE

EVERLASTING LOVE

OUR SERVICES

We believe that romantic relationships are at the core of human happiness and fulfillment. Whether you're seeking to improve your current relationship, overcome challenges, or trying to decide if you're ready for marriage or moving in together, we are here to guide and support you every step of the way. We believe that healthy, happy, and satisfying relationships are rooted in accurate self-awareness and self-understanding. Therefore, our services are based on a foundation of authentic self-discovery through various
scientifically proven assessments. Our services are designed to:
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"TO LOVE DEEPLY IS TO LIVE FULLY, FOR IT IGNITES A PASSION THAT FUELS THE SOUL'S JOURNEY."
 
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JOIN OUR MAILING LIST TO RECEIVE EXCLUSIVE RELATIONSHIP TIPS AND INSIGHTS DIRECTLY FROM OUR EXPERT COACHES. DISCOVER POWERFUL STRATEGIES TO ENHANCE YOUR CONNECTION, RESOLVE CONFLICTS, AND BUILD A THRIVING PARTNERSHIP. SUBSCRIBE NOW TO START
TRANSFORMING YOUR LOVE STORY!

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WHO ARE THE FACES BEHIND COUPLES DEVELOPMENT?

We are Melissa and Clark, a dynamic husband and wife duo who share a passion for fostering healthy and thriving relationships. Our journey to becoming relationship coaches has been shaped by a diverse set

of experiences and extensive training in various fields. We believe that understanding the intricate nature of relationships requires a holistic approach, which is

why we have dedicated ourselves to multiple

areas of expertise.

We are not just coaches; we have been together

for over 20 years. Our relationship has

weathered its share of ups and downs, allowing us

to understand firsthand the dynamics of a lasting

and meaningful partnership. As a couple, we embody

the principles we teach, ensuring authenticity in our

coaching approach.  Whether you're in the early stages of

a relationship, facing a rough patch, or looking to

strengthen the love you already share,

we are here to support you. Our relationship coaching

will empower you to cultivate understanding,

improve communication, and nurture the profound

connection you desire.

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Coach Clark
About Relationship Coach Melissa
Coach Mel
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About 70% of relationship conflicts never get resolved because they are the result of personality differences and NOT a lack of love.

Most disagreements in relationships reoccur because they are personality-based disagreements that stem from fundamental aspects of who your partner is. But often, we can interpret these disagreements as a lack of chemistry or misalignment in compatibility.

Relationship coach Melissa

- Coach Mel

"LOVE IS NOT JUST A FEELING; 
IT'S THE CATALYST THAT IGNITES OUR TRUE POTENTIAL."
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LOVE'S LABYRINTH

A PASSIONATELY WRITTEN COLLECTION OF ESSAYS AND POETRY
ALL ABOUT LOVE, INTIMACY, AND DESIRE.
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ARE YOU READY TO BREAK GENERATIONAL CURSES 
AND BUILD A LEGACY OF LOVE THAT LASTS
A LIFETIME?

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